Ruined orgasms are a concept within BDSM and sexual dynamics where an orgasm is deliberately interrupted or prevented from reaching its full intensity or satisfaction. Unlike traditional orgasms, which are typically experienced as pleasurable peaks of sexual arousal and release, ruined orgasms involve a deliberate manipulation of stimulation to produce a sensation that is less satisfying or even uncomfortable for the individual.

During a ruined orgasm, the stimulation leading to climax is abruptly halted or altered in a way that diminishes the intensity or pleasure of the orgasm. This can involve stopping physical stimulation, applying pressure to sensitive areas to reduce arousal, or using techniques such as edging to prolong the buildup to orgasm without allowing release.

The goal of inducing a ruined orgasm can vary depending on the context and desires of the individuals involved. In some cases, it may be part of BDSM play, where the dominant partner exerts control over the submissive’s sexual pleasure, leading to a sense of frustration or submission. Ruined orgasms can also be used in orgasm control or denial practices as a form of punishment, discipline, or erotic teasing.

Despite the name, ruined orgasms can still be pleasurable for some individuals, albeit in a different way than a typical orgasm. They may experience a mix of sensations, including arousal, frustration, and heightened sensitivity, which can contribute to the overall intensity of the sexual experience.